Not As We Planned

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New episodes every Thursday, with exclusive bonus episodes every Monday on Patreon.Welcome to Not As We Planned, the honest podcast about relationships, dating, marriage, divorce and motherhood, and all the things no one really talks about. From becoming a mum and navigating divorce, to rebuilding life as a single mum and dating again in your 30s, we’re sharing the real, messy and unexpected sides of it all. Life doesn’t always go to plan, and neither do relationships. This is a space for open conversations, shared experiences and saying the things most people avoid.If you have a question or want to share your story, email us at notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.comJoin Our Community:Get our weekly BONUS episode:https://patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlannedFollow the Podcast:@notasweplanned_podcastTash:@tash_blake_ivyCarly:@iamcarlyharrisGet the Planner:https://notasweplanned.shop

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Latest episodes

  1. I Thought I Was Straight… Until I Fell For A Woman 13 Years Younger

    2026-11-12 · 44 min · Season 1, episode 162

    This week, we hear from a Bestie who spent her entire life believing she was straight… until she fell for a woman 13 years younger! Now she's questioning everything she thought she wanted from love. We also hear from a…

  2. My Husband Bought His Mistress Matching Wedding Rings… Before We Were Divorced

    2026-11-05 · 1 hr 4 min · Season 1, episode 161

    This week, we're reading two absolutely heartbreaking stories of betrayal. One listener discovers her husband has been cheating throughout their 12-year relationship, only for him to move in with another woman and buy a…

  3. A Man Punched Tash's Car… Then Threatened Her With A Hammer

    2026-10-29 · 47 min · Season 1, episode 160

    It’s Halloween, and we’ve got some truly terrifying relationship stories for you! This week, we hear from a Bestie who spent almost FIVE YEARS with a man she believed was separated, only to discover he was still married…

  4. Rosie On Surviving Breast Cancer At 35 With Two Young Children

    2026-10-21 · 1 hr 1 min · Season 1, episode 159

    At just 35 years old, with two young children and a daughter about to celebrate her first birthday, Rosie discovered a lump in her breast that would change her life forever. In this incredibly emotional episode, Rosie…

  5. We Waited 23 Years To Get Married… He Cheated 3 Months Later

    2026-10-14 · 44 min · Season 1, episode 158

    Imagine spending 23 years with someone, raising three children together and finally getting married… only to discover he’s been talking to another woman just THREE MONTHS after your wedding. One listener thought she had…

  6. I Found Out My Husband Had A 16-Year-Old Son I Knew NOTHING About

    2026-10-07 · 42 min · Season 1, episode 157

    Imagine receiving a letter and discovering your husband has a 16-year-old son you knew absolutely nothing about. One listener had spent years believing his version of how a previous relationship ended, only for a…

  7. I’m The Other Woman… And I’ve Fallen In Love With Him

    2026-09-30 · 40 min · Season 1, episode 156

    One Bestie has a confession she never thought she’d be making: she’s the other woman. What started with a work colleague who has a long-term partner and two children has turned into a year-long affair, and now they’ve…

  8. Carly Got A Nose Job… And She’s Finally Revealing Everything

    2026-09-23 · 1 hr 5 min · Season 1, episode 155

    Carly is back with a new nose! After years of feeling insecure about it, she finally flew to Turkey alone for the nose job she’d wanted for years. She opens up about why she decided to do it, the panic that hit before…

  9. I’d Just Given Birth When I Found THESE Messages On His Phone

    2026-09-16 · 37 min · Season 1, episode 154

    Three weeks after giving birth, one Bestie woke in the middle of the night panicking that she’d missed an alarm to feed her newborn. She couldn’t find her own phone, so she picked up her husband’s to check the time… and…

  10. Carly’s Dating Update Just Took A VERY Weird Turn…

    2026-09-09 · 45 min · Season 1, episode 153

    Carly thought she’d finally met someone who ticked all the boxes: great chemistry, great dates, hours spent talking on the phone and seemingly all the right things to say. Then she discovered he was sleeping with…

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Publisher details

Owner
Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris
Oldest episode in feed
07/2023 · over 3 years
Typical length
47 min
Format
Episodic Newest first, episodes stand alone

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